Marin has the highest percentage of individuals over 65 in California and one of the highest percentages in the country. If you are lucky enough to have an oldster to care for, what do you do all day? My friend Faith has been so helpful in letting me know that it is okay to slow down. She's 15 years older than me, and much wiser. I drive us to a different cafe to lunch once a month. We are exploring the county's bounty of culinary delights. As a result, at least once a month I know I can slow down.